Why does it seem like it’s so difficult to go out on dates nowadays? We blame it on our location, the scarcity of decent guys/girls, our busy schedules, scattered community, lack of opportunity to meet someone, social pressure put on dating, personal strict dating principles, etc. These might be real hurtles, but in the end they are just excuses.
I don’t write this to berate anyone (I make these excuses along with everyone else…), but to bring perspective. Being a single person, we have the freedom and flexibility to overcome all of these hurtles. However, we have to be willing to do so. To sit back and complain is easy; to make a change is much more difficult.
I’m not necessarily advocating a major change in your life. You can make small steps – challenge yourself to jump outside your comfort zone and try something different. If you’re serious about wanting to meet someone, make the commitment to explore the opportunity out there. The fact that you’re here, considering Maybe More, shows you’re ready to make the change. We can’t predict what God has in store, and many times the path isn’t clear. Open the door Him and see what he does in your life.
So what are you waiting for? There a whole world out there to discover, full a great singles like you. Get out there and meet them!
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